hey craig, was thinking about michael jackson and how we know what his family is going through, only more so because of the media, and i don't know how i made the leap from him to darth vader, but it brought to mind some of the things that jennifer wrote in her note to you, and what i had written. it will be your birthday soon and i still find it hard to believe that your not here. this pain never really goes away, it just lies in hiding waiting for the days when we feel a bit down and then just jumps out and bites us on the bum. miss you all; love and hugs sent to you all to share xxxxx